When You Date Like An Icon, Men Worship The Ground You Walk On
The 1:1 mentorship where you shift your identity to see and treat yourself like a goddess, and naturally attract the man that worships the ground you walk on.
You were never meant to chase.
You were never meant to beg.
You were meant to radiate, to show up like a 12/10 goddess in a sea of mortals, and to magnetise devotion effortlessly, without lowering your standards, toning down your brilliance or proving your worth.
Most women unconsciously slip into proving, negotiating or performing… and end up attracting men who give scraps, excuses and the bare minimum.
We don’t play that game over here.
When you see and treat yourself as a goddess - juicy, radiant, unapologetic - men compete to secure your time, your attention, your exclusivity. The right man rises effortlessly. The wrong ones quietly filter themselves out. You don’t have to chase, nag or overthink a single text.
This is for you if…
🥀 You’re sick of men who “forget their wallet”, split the bill, or act like buying you one drink is a grand gesture.
🥀 You’ve played the “understanding woman” who gives them endless chances, laughs off their laziness, and convinces herself, “well at least he’s consistent in texting me”.
🥀 You’ve been the one holding space, carrying the conversation, making it easy - and it’s left you exhausted, bored, and questioning if there are any men who actually step up.
🥀 You notice how often you shrink your standards - agreeing to last-minute dates, overlooking sloppy effort, pretending you don’t care about being courted, just to avoid being labelled “high-maintenance” (as if that’s a flaw).
🥀 You know you weren’t born to be a man’s unpaid emotional crutch, event planner, or motivational coach, but somehow that’s the role you keep slipping into.
And deep down, you can feel it: you’re meant to be treated like a prize, a goddess, a woman whose presence inspires men to show up with resources, leadership and tangible devotion, not excuses.
Imagine this instead…
🌹 Men compete for your time because being near you feels like a privilege. They plan the date, make the reservations, follow through and show up with thoughtful gestures, without you needing to prove you deserve it.
🌹 You’re never the one following up, nudging or filling dead air. You ooze that juicy radiant magnetic energy that makes a man want to do more to please you.
🌹 Your calendar is full of dinners, experiences and invitations, not situationships, flakes or late-night “u up?” texts.
🌹 When a man isn’t aligned, he filters himself out quickly. Your energy is protected. Your presence makes it obvious you’re out of his league.
🌹 And the best part? You never prove, negotiate or sacrifice yourself. You simply shine, and your energy magnetises generosity, devotion and tangible displays of effort everywhere you go.
This is what becomes normal when you stop seeing yourself as a woman hoping to be chosen, and start moving like a goddess who already knows.
What it really feels like when you embody this
💃🏻 Your skin glows because you no longer entertain anything beneath your standards.
💃🏻 The untouchable peace of mind knowing low-quality people don’t even try. Only men who bring effort, consistency and generosity dare pursue you.
💃🏻 The way peers, collaborators and even strangers instinctively treat you like someone rare and extraordinary, just from how you carry yourself.
💃🏻 The confidence to walk away from a date or a man who doesn’t measure up, without spiralling, guilt-tripping or obsessing.
💃🏻 The power of knowing your life is already full, juicy and vibrant, and a man can only add to it, never replace it.
💃🏻 And because you never poured all your energy into a man, if things ever end, you remain whole, magnetic, and completely yourself. Still desirable. Still unfuckwithable. Still that 12/10 goddess.
💃🏻 You never lose yourself inside love. Your routines, friendships, pleasures and ambition stay fully intact. He expands to meet your life, not you shrinking or shapeshifting to fit his.
What it looks like inside a relationship
❦ You’re with a man who worships you steadily, reverently, without needing to be reminded.
❦ You never find yourself proving your value or softening your needs to keep him interested.
❦ You don’t over-give, over-explain, or manage his consistency or emotional state.
❦ You stay on your side of the polarity: receiving, expressing, radiating. He stays on his: providing, leading, protecting, investing.
❦ You give your juicy vibrant magnetic energy from keeping your cup full and your peace protected, not labour, over-functioning or self-sacrifice.
❦ At no point do you slip into the one-down position. Not in conflict. Not after commitment. Not over time. Because you never stopped treating yourself as the most valuable entity in the room.
That healthy asymmetric polarity, becomes normal. Devotion becomes engrained in his psyche, and receiving it becomes engrained in yours.
When things deepen, solving, fixing, providing, delivering, taking things off your plate - it’s already second-nature to him. You stay soft, magnetic and unbothered.
How you start to experience life during the process
🔥 You feel juicy, alive, and fully fulfilled in your own life - your routines, pleasures, creativity and goals. Dating adds to your life, it doesn’t fill a hole.
🔥 Texts and calls are fun and exciting, not high-stakes. You know that if a connection fizzles, it’s just data, not a reflection of your worth.
🔥 You no longer latch onto the first decent man out of fear of missing out. You can walk away from a meh date and think, “nice but not for me, nexttt” without spiralling.
🔥 If a man ghosts, gets flaky, send mixed signals or says he’s not ready, you shrug it off and stay focused on yourself. By the next day you’re back to your usual routine, maybe even joking about it with your friends over drinks.
🔥 You don’t chase closure. You don’t obsess over “did he mean this?” or “what should I have said?”. You’re calm, sovereign and unfuckwithable.
You learn to receive the right kind of love
💎 When he shows up consistently and generously, you relax into it. No tests. No nitpicking. No sabotaging. No wondering if you deserve it or if it’s too good to be true.
💎 When he takes care of you, you say “thank you” instead of feeling guilty or needing to repay. You receive fully, and it feels normal.
💎 You don’t slip into patterns that put yourself last. He can cancel plans or mess up, but you maintain your peace, routines and energy.
💎 When he says he loves you, you believe him - confidently, fully, without self-doubt or proving your worth. None of that “if I turned into a slug would you still love me” - you’re confident and comfortable about how he loves you and he mirrors that secure energy back.
💎 You communicate desires clearly, warmly and playfully, without fear. You ask for attention, support or gestures, knowing it won’t threaten him.
💎 You keep your identity fully intact. You still dress how you want, see your friends, spend your money on whatever you want, pursue your goals. He doesn’t just tolerate it, he loves and supports it.
The ICON Signature Framework
These aren’t things you “do”. They’re the natural result of seeing and treating yourself like a goddess - consistently, privately and without apology.
1) ICON IDENTITY
The juicy, magnetic, radiant, party-in-your-head, bliss-bubble energy. Playful. Carefree. Relaxed. From your rituals, pleasures and boundaries, you radiate a presence that makes men worship your standards. From that energy, you will never accept anyone who treats you below that.
2) CALIBRATION TO OPENNESS & RECEIVING
You know your worth. You set your terms. You accept devotion as baseline. You don’t debate it, explain it or minimise it. Anything less filters itself out.
You don’t let anyone that tells you you deserve or should tolerate anything less, mess with your belief system, your mindset, your emotions, your beliefs about what you get to have, your sense of self-worth or your momentum. You let that be data and a filtering system, not something to spiral over.
3) ORCHESTRATING FEMININE PLAY & POLARITY
You ooze playful, magnetic goddess energy in every interaction. You communicate and hold yourself in a way that keeps him in pursuit and keeps you prioritised always.
You know when to show interest, when to hold back, how to share in a way that gets you what you want, what to keep some mystery about. You know what kind of authenticity will serve you, and what kind of authenticity will backfire on you and how not to overshare. You communicate in a way where your body, actions and energy are congruent with your words, eliminating the need for over-explaining.
So men respond by treating you with that standard. And if it becomes apparent that they won’t, they can leave and you’ll still be happy with your peace protected.
4) NAVIGATING LIKE AN ICON
You show up where the right men for you are, radiating effortless attention-attracting energy because you’re visible in the places that get you the right kind of attention, where you flirt with life, where you feel like the 12/10 goddess in a sea of mortals, where you shine in your element. You don’t chase, perform, or overfunction. You stand out, shine, and let the men who match your standards rise to the occasion.
You’re fully equipped to handle all the conversations that count - the ones that set the tone for how you're treated going forward.
🔥 When these four pillars are locked in, every man in your field has only two choices: show up for you properly or disappear.
Your Iconic Bonuses
❦ Direct voice note support between sessions - for in-the-moment clarity when you need it (think: me in your back pocket telling you exactly what and when to text so men respond with effort, consistency and respect 😉).
❦ Personalised aura calibration audit - you’ll discover exactly what’s radiating out in the micro-moments in how you move, speak and receive, so you’ll know exactly where to refine.
❦ Exclusive strategy & profile review - dating app presence, photos and first-date energy fine-tuned to reflect your goddess identity, not the one you’re leaving behind.
❦ Curated rituals & resources - tailored to your energy, not a cookie-cutter workbook. Simple upgrades that shift how men respond instantly.
Your Investment
💎 £5,000 for 4 months of fully personalised 1:1 mentorship
❦ Private 1:1 sessions via Zoom (VIP in-person upgrade available)
❦ Telegram voice note support between sessions, for quick shifts and fine-tuning in real time
❦ Every session tailored to your dating life, your energy and your standards.
This is not a course, it’s not group coaching and it’s not surface-level advice. This is intimate, high-frequency mentorship where every interaction with me recalibrates how you’re experienced - by men, by peers and by yourself.
Your Next Move
If you’re done tolerating crumbs and are ready to attract the man who worships the ground you walk on - while your glow transforms every other area of your life - Date Like An Icon is for you.
Your only task is to say yes to the support. Step into the mentorship. Step into the goddess energy that men are biologically wired to worship.
FAQs
Q: Will this actually work for me if I don’t have any high-quality men in my orbit right now?
A: Absolutely. You already attract men, this isn’t about “finding” them. It’s about recalibrating your energy, standards and presence so the right men rise to match you. Men take cues from early interactions - from texts to dates - and they show up accordingly. You become the woman who naturally filters out the wrong ones and magnetises the right ones.
Q: What if I overthink or over-invest energy?
A: That’s exactly what we fix. Inside Date Like An Icon, you learn to stay detached yet magnetic, so you no longer exhaust yourself over men who don’t show up the way you want. Your standards become so engrained, so non-negotiable, that over-investment becomes impossible.
Q: What if I’ve tried dating programs or strategies before and nothing worked?
A: Because this isn’t about “what to do”, which scripts and tactics to follow, which is what most programs focus on. This is different. This is a high-frequency recalibration of how you see yourself, how you show up and how men experience you. When you shift your identity to see and treat yourself as a goddess, you don’t need those tricks or extra effort. Men just see you as that woman they need to rise for.
Q: What if I feel like I need to chase or “manage” men to get them to show up?
A: That’s the old way. Inside Date Like An Icon, you learn to stay magnetic while men do the work. You stay juicy, radiant and untouchable, while men rise to meet your standards without you prompting them. Chasing becomes unnecessary, irrelevant and frankly, beneath you. You just radiate, and men prove themselves, or they quietly disappear.
Q: How do I know if this is really for me?
A: Date Like An Icon is for the woman who is ready to stop settling, overfunctioning or tolerating scraps. If you’re ready to embody your full juicy goddess energy, see yourself as the prize and attract the man who worships your presence, this is for you.
If your body knows this is for you, don’t wait. Every day you delay is another day spent giving your energy to men who can’t rise to you.
Let’s make it happen.
Abeda xx